Do you think I have traits of a psychopath or sociopath?

Definitely! The fact that you think that you are better than anyone, how you pretend to care about people and then lie are definitely traits of the psychopath. You may be persuasive and arrogant as well. Do you have feelings for closed ones? If you do then you are not a psychopath. Still, you have a lot of things to work out, I would suggest getting the support of close people and a psychologist.