General Help with Multiple Sclerosis?

The emotions you describe are common when an uncertain illness like MS strikes a family member. It is probably too soon to tell, but you will want to know what type of MS he has. Some people experience occassional relapses and then recover, while others have a more dangerous type where things go downhill in a steady fashion. There is quite a bit of research being done on MS and hopefully this will lead to some promising medications. I have a couple of good friends who suffer from MS - I hate what it does to them yet there is nothing I can do. Feelings of helplessness and depression are common. Give him lots of support and love and hope that he bounces back.